When it comes to what you should be doing, where to put your focus and what to pursue, you can do all the usual stuff: write down your hopes and dreams, what excites you, what you know to do, what you love to do and then try and try to figure out what to put on your vision board. But if all that fails, one thing has helped me. I take action, quick and decisive action when I feel the PULL.

Have you ever cooked a full on elaborate meal in a tiny tiny kitchen? If you have, you know how chaotic it can get. With all the chopping, frying, cooking, stirring, seasoning and plating, the kitchen counters can turn into a full on mayhem regardless of any efforts to keep things tidy. It doesn’t mean you failed with your cooking, it just means you gave it your all. And, an epic mess doesn’t make a dinner any less delicious.

She was successful, she was liked, she worked in a very high position in the company.. and, she was ladylike, kind, sensitive, always had long nails and red nail polish, high heels and long wavy blonde hair. She was stunning, feminine, soft and powerful. All in one package without trying to be something she was not.

It’s a universal truth that a fairytale princess does nothing but waits for her prince to arrive and thus you should not try to be like her, right? Wrong.

Here’s the thing about princesses of our favorite tales - I think they are misunderstood and I think we all should look up to them as inspiration towards a dream life.

Don't get me wrong, I doubt as much as the next person. But the thing is, if you don't know how to come out of that doubt and tap back into trusting in the magic of your life - the magic won't show itself. Or, more so you won't notice it if it is not staring you at the face. Or, you might notice yet still not believe. And suddenly, you are blocking your own fairytale from happening.

You, my love, deserve to thrive. You deserve to go after your dreams. You deserve to feel joy, excitement and alive. You deserve to tap into your heart and live a fairytale life. So what is the magic formula, how can you start tapping into your heart? How does that fairytale start revealing itself?